Peter Pan-Therein lies the real connection to Mr Darling even if unintentional....they are both representing the status quo. That being said...as you've said to me before in our discussions here at home...sometimes characters take on a life of their own and you have no idea how things developed the way they did. I think the Hook and Mr. Darling parallels are pretty neat even if unintentional...I think it fits. Especially since Wendy doesn't return till the croc has swallowed him up...as if that Pirate in Mr. Darling has been killed and he can act like a loving father with his children. That's how it always hit me.
Heh--that's not the way I interpret the story, but that's the great thing about the tale, is that you can interpret it however you want. I personally see it that Wendy, Peter, Mrs. Darling, and Hook are all archetypes of (respectively) girls, boys, women, and men. Wendy's relationship with her mother is cyclical (as evidenced by when she grew up and had her daughter Jane), while Peter's relationship with Hook is mirrored (apparently opposites, the two have a lot in common, but a barrier separates them). Plus, Mrs. Darling, Peter Pan, and Captain Hook ALL want Wendy, and I see that as driving the story--she starts out as "the MacGuffin" but ends up making her own decisions based on what she's learned from each. That's why I considered her non-relationship with Hook a deficiency in Barrie--he could have explored that, as the 2003 film did, but he didn't.
Well we definately know what betwixt-and-between would be being adults who play like children all the time...but one of my favorite quotes from Barrie is:
"I wish that the universe were radically different, since the world as it is is not just tragic, it is for me an impossibility. To be completely human--with its full range of both practical and imaginative potentialities--and to grow up; these are in a sense contradictories. By growing up, by co-operating in social order, living, one has to curtail the imagination; by doing this one is obliged to give up so much that one becomes an inacceptably diminished person."
So to use a christian phrase....I think he was in the world but not a part of it. If that makes sense?
I like that quote as well, and what you say DEFINITELY makes sense, as I feel the same way very much. I've always felt like an outsider, observing rather than participating, and like I'm "pretending" to be me rather than actually "being" me.